Positive energy attracts success. Success makes you feel more confident and increases your positive energy which in turn attracts more success to you. This is the kind of positive spiral you want to create in your life if you want to have permanent success in your life.
If you are constantly being held back by negative people surrounding you, you will have a difficult time achieving what you want, Every step that you move forward will be set back by ten steps. Instead of progressing, you will be regressing.
And that is why you need to get rid of negative people in your life or avoid them completely. That is why you need to surround yourself with positive people who will be able to take you towards the rising spiral you need to turn your life around.
What are some ways to identify those negative people in your life?
Negative people are critical:
They always think they are right and you are wrong. Maybe they are right. But what if they are wrong? How do you know if they are wrong? You need to do your own research and make a judgement. Like what Alibaba's founder Jack Ma says, different people tell him different opinions about the same thing and he has to make his own judgement and go ahead with it when his research shows that others may be wrong. After the research, if you find that these people may not be entirely right, you will then know they are just being critical and close-minded and you should ignore what they say about you.
Negative people don't teach you good values:
They are many of them. If you observe them for long enough, you can surely tell. They promise you many things but never keep them and you feel that your trust in them has been exploited. They tell you one thing but do another thing. It seems like there is no relationship between what they say and what they do. They measure everything in terms of money and forget about appreciating a person just because he or she is also a fellow human being. They tell you there's no need to educate yourself so much. They tell you under some circumstances a person can "own" another person and dictates him or her anything to be done, including an order to commit suicide. They do not feel there's a need to observe privacy and frequently enter your room without knocking and tell you it's wrong to lock up one's room.
Negative people creates trouble:
Instead of spending time to solve the many problems that already exist, negative people around you can create trouble for you and you end up spending all your limited energy, mental and emotional, on solving issues that are not there in the first place, leaving little to spare to embark and continue on the ventures you are working on. Even when you have understood their problems and have told them how to solve their problems, they continue their old ways and are reluctant to adjust to new ways of doing things even though it solve their problems!
The effect of all these is that you will constantly feel lack of confidence, angry, frustrated, disappointed, hopeless, fatigued and zapped of energy. In the long term, your physical, mental and emotional health may slide back. Without positive energy, it's hard for you to sustain yourself, let alone pursue your dreams and goals.
One of the most important reason why you need to get rid of negative people or avoid or ignore them completely in your life.
Do it because you love yourself. Everything positive has to start within you. If you keep getting yourself poisoned by these negative people and the negative experiences, memories and emotions they pass on to you, you will be dead (you can take it literally or figuratively) from the poison before you can fulfil your dreams and goals.
Do you really want to make a real progress in your life and is the presence of negative people one of the major reasons for that?
Then get rid of them. Remove them from your life. If they cannot leave, try as much as you can to stay away from them and avoid them at all cost.
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| Remove negative people from your life. Love yourself first. Everything else will then fall into place properly. |
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