Many people want success but when you start to ask them what do they mean, they have difficulty articulating. It means they are not clear about what success is to to them, despite them saying otherwise.
The first step to success is to define what success is to you. If you know the destination, you have a higher chance of getting there eventually with an appropriate plan.
So how do you define success?
One way is by thinking about the different aspects of our lives, such as financial, career, education, personal development, spirituality, health, fitness, social life, family and so on.
How should each aspect be in your life so that it means successful to you? Take out a pen and paper to write down your description of what each aspect means to you.
For me, I write down a list of 100 goals that I want to achieve in my lifetime and then I categorise them into the different aspects of life. Yes, it's 100. You didn't read wrongly. Actually, like you, I thought having 100 goals was too much. But as I wrote, I found myself exceeding 100 goals! Amazing!!
A few months later, review it again and refine your definition. Continue to do this until it is very close to your ideal life. It make take months or even years to clarify your definition. Have patience!
Cheers!
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